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90 day coaching for real dads

Become the dad your family actually gets excited to be around.

Dad Reset Coaching is a ninety day program for exhausted, overwhelmed fathers who want a calmer home, a stronger marriage, and a confident identity they are proud of. No fluff and no dad shaming just simple systems, honest conversations, and real change.

Book a free Dad Clarity Call See the program and pricing
15 min · no pressure We map out what is really going on and what it would take to change it.
Dad with twins
Real dad in the trenches

“It feels like our home finally exhaled.”

Dad Reset client · toddler dad · formerly exhausted

Less snapping More connection Better rhythm at home
You do not need a perfect home. You need better support and simple systems for this season of life. That is what we build together inside Dad Reset Coaching.
This might sound familiar

If you are a dad and life feels like one long fire drill…

You are not a bad dad. You are just overloaded in a world that never taught you how to carry this much.

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    You snap faster than you want to.
    One tiny thing goes wrong and you go from zero to sixty in seconds. You hate the way it feels, but you cannot seem to stop.
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    Your house feels like chaos on loop.
    Mornings, dinners, bedtimes, weekends everything feels reactive. You are constantly behind and never really off.
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    Your marriage is mostly logistics.
    You love your spouse, but most conversations are about pickups and diapers and who is more exhausted. Romance feels like a past life.
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    The guilt never really turns off.
    Guilty for working. Guilty for needing a break. Guilty for zoning out. Guilty for losing your temper. It is exhausting.

You were never given a playbook for modern fatherhood. You do not need more willpower. You need a better system and support.

Everyday dad chaos
Imagine something different

What if your home actually felt lighter?

Picture yourself ninety days from now, looking around your home and realizing it finally feels different.

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    Your home feels calmer.
    Still noisy and messy, but no longer constant chaos. Rhythms actually work for your family.
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    You like the way you show up.
    You are more patient, you recover faster, and you feel proud of how you handle the hard moments.
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    Your marriage feels like a team again.
    Less resentment, more small moments of connection, and a shared sense that you are on the same side.
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    Your kids know what to expect.
    Routines stick. Boundaries make sense. Meltdowns no longer dictate the entire day.
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    You feel like a confident dad again.
    Not perfect and not pretending. Just grounded, present, and clear on who you are and what you are building.
Happy family moment
Simple, not overwhelming

How Dad Reset Coaching works

No giant course and no complicated app. Just three simple stages that fit real dad life.

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Audit
We map your real life.
Work schedule, marriage rhythms, kid ages, sleep, stress, responsibilities we get the full picture so we can fix the actual causes, not just the symptoms.
2
Reset
We design your ninety day plan.
Together we build simple, flexible rhythms for mornings, evenings, weekends, discipline, and connection that match your actual family, not someone else’s highlight reel.
3
Reinforce
We keep you supported.
Weekly coaching, real time voice support, and a small group of dads walking the same road so the new life you build actually sticks.
Inside the container

What you get in the ninety day Dad Reset Coaching program

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    Weekly coaching calls
    Live sessions where we tackle your biggest challenges, refine your routines, and keep you moving forward with real accountability.
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    The Dad Systems Audit
    A full look at your schedule, home life, stress triggers, expectations, and mental load so we know exactly what to adjust first.
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    Personal Dad Reset Blueprint
    Your step by step plan for mornings, evenings, weekends, discipline, and connection built around your reality, not mine.
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    Unlimited voice support
    When things blow up midweek, you do not have to wait until the next call. Drop a message and get support.
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    Private Dudela dad community
    A small group of dads who get it. Wins, venting, questions, and encouragement in real time so you never feel like you are doing this alone.
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    Full Dudela resource library
    Scripts, guides, routines, and micro lessons you can use on your own schedule, not just during calls.
Investment
$1,500
or two payments of $900

For most dads, this program pays for itself in stress, time, and relationship repair within the first few weeks.

Join now · pay in full Join with payment plan

Guarantee: If after thirty days you do not feel noticeably calmer, more confident, and more in control, I will refund one hundred percent of your investment.

Not sure yet? Start with a free Dad Clarity Call to see if this is the right fit for your season.

Who is behind this?

Real dads in the thick of it

Not guys looking back twenty years later trying to remember what it was like. We are in the trenches with you.

Hey, I am John. I am a husband, a twin girl dad, and a guy who learned the hard way that “winging it” does not work when your home is full of tiny humans.

I have spent years in leadership, coaching, and ministry, and I kept seeing the same thing dads who love their families but feel like they are failing at home.

When our twins arrived, the wheels came off. The routines, the marriage stress, the exhaustion all of it. I had to build actual systems for my home, my heart, and my family or I was going to burn out.

Dad Reset Coaching is everything I wish someone had handed me in that season, wrapped in practical coaching, real honesty, and a lot of grace.

J
John, founder of Dudela
Twin girl dad · coach · in the trenches with you

“Before working with John I felt like I was always one bad bedtime away from losing it. Now we have a rhythm that actually works for us, and my wife keeps saying ‘I feel like I have my husband back.’”

Dad Reset client · two kids under five

John and Viv
Family moment

Ready to start your Dad Reset?

You do not have to white knuckle your way through this season. If you want a calmer home, a stronger marriage, and a more confident dad in the mirror, I would be honored to walk with you.

Book a free Dad Clarity Call Join the ninety day program
We spend fifteen minutes mapping out what is really going on and what it would take to change it. If we are a fit, we can talk about working together. If not, you still leave with clarity.
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