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What even is a Dudela?
Think doula... but for dudes. Dudela is the crash course for fatherhood — equal parts funny, helpful, and real. We’re here to help guys survive sleep deprivation, support their partner, and learn how to hold a bottle without looking confused.
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🎙️ The Dudela Podcast
Dad Guilt, Marriage, & Modern Fatherhood (with @TheHusbandDad)
Feeling like you're failing as a dad? This episode is for you. We’re joined by Elliot from @TheHusbandDad to talk about what it means to be a father in 2025 — the guilt, the grind, and the good stuff. From overwhelmed twin dads and working dads to stay-at-home dads feeling invisible, we unpack real strategies to show up well at home and in your marriage without losing yourself.
You’ll hear laugh-out-loud dad fails, honest reflections on parenting pressure, and practical tips for staying grounded as a husband and father. Whether you’re exhausted, new to this, or just trying not to mess it up — you’re in good company.
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Stuff We Wrote During Nap Time
Honest takes. Quick reads. Maybe even helpful.
From baby gear breakdowns to emotional survival tips—our blog is where we write the things we don’t have time to podcast about. Usually after bedtime.