Welcome to Dudela
For the Dad Who Has No Idea (Yet)
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What even is a Dudela?
Think doula... but for dudes. Dudela is the crash course for fatherhood — equal parts funny, helpful, and real. We’re here to help guys survive sleep deprivation, support their partner, and learn how to hold a bottle without looking confused.
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The Spit-Up Society:
Our Dad Community
This is where it all happens.
When you join, you get:
Access to our private Discord
Weekly emails packed with checklists, insider tips, and new dad hacks
Dumb jokes and real stories from the trenches
Discounts on stuff we actually use
First dibs on merch, courses, and more
It’s free. It’s awesome. It’s made for you.
🎙️ The Dudela Podcast
What Moms Actually Need From Dads (with Leila from Learning to Mom)
ALL the things new dads NEED to hear (but rarely do) — from pregnancy shock to showing up well. This week, we sat down with Leila from the Learning to Mom podcast to get real about what it’s actually like becoming a parent — especially when you didn’t see it coming. Expect honest convos on prenatal depression, partner support, shame, fear, and how dads can show up better from day one.
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Dudela Merch
The Dudela Hat
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Stuff We Wrote During Nap Time
Honest takes. Quick reads. Maybe even helpful.
From baby gear breakdowns to emotional survival tips—our blog is where we write the things we don’t have time to podcast about. Usually after bedtime.